When it comes to sex, being prepared and staying safe should always be a priority. While condoms are a simple and effective way to protect against STIs and unplanned pregnancies, there’s more to using them correctly than just rolling one on. Let’s dive into the basics, because staying safe is always the smart choice!
Condoms used for this article are XO! Sustainable, Vegan Condoms made by FLO!
Check the date before you mate
Always check the expiration date on your condoms – if they’re expired, they’re not going to work as well and could break. For peace of mind, stick to condoms with the European CE mark or UKCA mark, which means they’ve passed safety standards. Keeping an eye on these details helps make sure you’re fully protected against STIs and unplanned pregnancies. It’s a small step that makes a big difference in staying safe!
Rip it right, rip it good
Gently push the condom to the side with your fingers and tear the packet straight down one edge to avoid ripping it. Never use scissors, sharp objects, or your teeth to open it, as you could accidentally damage the condom. Taking a second to open it carefully helps ensure it’s in perfect shape for safe use!
The handy hat trick
Before you roll the condom down, double-check that the ring is on the outside – it should look like a little hat, not a shower cap! If it’s the other way around, it won’t unroll properly, and you’ll need to flip it over. Taking a second to get this right ensures everything goes smoothly.
Don’t slip up, skip the slick
Using lube is always a smart choice, but make sure to go for a natural, water-based lubricant. Oil-based products like moisturisers or vaseline can weaken silicone condoms, making them more likely to break. Sticking with the right lube keeps everything safer and smoother!
Pinch the tip before you dip
When putting on a condom, give the tip a little squeeze to remove any air. This helps prevent it from bursting, creates a space for semen, and ensures it doesn’t feel too tight. It’s a simple step that makes everything safer and more comfortable!
The most important tip of them all: Consent
“Consent happens when all people involved in any kind of sexual activity agree to take part by choice. They also need to have the freedom and capacity to make that choice.
We ALL have the right to not want sex or any other kind of sexual activity – for example, kissing, sexual touching or performing a sexual act. We also all have the right to change our minds at any time. Or to consent to doing one sexual thing with someone but not another.
Without consent, any kind of sexual activity is sexual violence.”
– Rape Crisis
Founder and CEO of Cliterally The Best, Evie Plumb is a qualified sex educator and nearing the completion of her training in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy. She’s on a mission to provide accessible, inclusive sex education for those of us who had a sh*tty sex ed – because when we truly understand our bodies and relationships, life is so much better (and, more importantly, way more fun!).
