The Sex & Relationship Therapist Directory
A global directory for trustworthy and inclusive psychosexual and relationship therapists.
Culturally in-tune
All of these therapists have undergone in-depth training that centres inclusivity across cultures, races, identities, and lived experiences.
Licensed to call
Legally anyone can label as a 'therapist' so it's important to find one thats actually qualified. All of these therapists are registered with COSRT (recognised by the NHS) or the equivalent body in their country.
Accessible AF
All therapists listed here offer sliding-scale or low-cost sessions, making therapy more accessible for people on lower incomes - because support shouldn’t be a luxury.
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⚠️ Please note: These therapists operate independently of Cliterally The Best, and we are not involved in or responsible for the services they provide.
Therapy FAQs
What even is psychosexual and relationship therapy?
Sex and relationship therapy, also called psychosexual therapy, is a talking-based therapy that helps individuals and couples address sexual, emotional, and relational difficulties in a safe, non-judgemental space.
According to COSRT, it is a professional therapy aimed at exploring the causes of sexual and relationship challenges, understanding patterns of thought, emotion, and behaviour, and supporting positive change. It does not involve physical touch and can help with issues such as sexual difficulties, intimacy problems, communication challenges, identity questions, and the impact of trauma.
It works with both solo individuals and people in relationships to improve sexual wellbeing, emotional connection, and overall confidence in their sexual and relational lives.
How do I know my therapist is regulated?
Good question!
Not all people who call themselves “sex therapists” have formal training. To make sure your therapist is qualified:
Check professional registers: Look for therapists listed on recognised national or international registers. Some examples:
UK: COSRT (cosrt.org.uk)
US: AASECT (aasect.org)
Canada: CASAT (caset.ca)
Australia: AASECT Australia / AAS (aasr.com.au)
Europe: EFSRT (efsrt.eu)
Check qualifications: Accredited therapists should have formal training in psychosexual or relationship therapy and usually list their certifications on their profile.
Ask directly: Don’t be afraid to ask a therapist about their training, experience, and accreditation. A professional therapist will answer these questions clearly.
Referral options: If private therapy isn’t possible, your GP can sometimes refer you for limited NHS sessions in the UK.
Remember: being on a recognised register is the safest way to ensure your therapist is properly trained and regulated.
Everyone on this directory is registered with the above governing bodies.
If you have any questions about this, I am happy to help – evie@cliterallythebest.com
What can I expect from my first session?
Your first session might feel a little different from later sessions. Many therapists use it as an assessment to understand your history, why you’ve come, and what you hope to work on. There will typically more note taking than usual sessions.
It’s also a chance for you to ask any questions you have about the therapy process – no question is too big or too small. You don’t have to answer anything you’re not comfortable with, and you can go at your own pace. The goal is to help you feel safe, heard, and supported from the very beginning.
What if I can't afford therapy?
I have written a handy article for this for wherever you are in the world.
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