Sexual Health & Contraception
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Can you get pregnant on your period?
Yes, you can get pregnant during your period, though it’s less likely. Sperm can survive in your body for up to 7 days, so if you have a shorter cycle and ovulate early, there’s a chance of pregnancy. If you don’t want to get pregnant, use contraception every time you have sex, including during your period.
How effective is the contraceptive pill?
The contraceptive pill is over 99% effective when taken perfectly (same time every day, no missed pills). In typical use, it’s about 91% effective because people sometimes miss pills or take them late. The pill doesn’t protect against STIs, so use condoms as well if you’re at risk.
Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?
Yes, you can get pregnant from pre-cum (pre-ejaculate). While pre-cum itself doesn’t contain sperm, it can pick up leftover sperm from previous ejaculations in the urethra. This is why the withdrawal method is only about 78% effective with typical use. Use proper contraception if you want to avoid pregnancy.
Do condoms protect against all STIs?
Condoms significantly reduce the risk of most STIs including HIV, chlamydia, and gonorrhoea, but they don’t provide 100% protection. STIs that spread through skin-to-skin contact (like herpes, HPV, and syphilis) can still be transmitted if the infected area isn’t covered by the condom. Using condoms consistently and correctly is still the best way to reduce STI risk during sex.
How long after unprotected sex can you take emergency contraception?
It depends on the type. The emergency contraceptive pill (morning after pill) works best within 24 hours but can be taken up to 72 hours (3 days) after unprotected sex for levonorgestrel, or up to 120 hours (5 days) for ulipristal acetate (ellaOne). The copper IUD can be fitted up to 5 days after unprotected sex and is the most effective form of emergency contraception.
What's the best contraception method?
There’s no single “best” contraception. It depends on your lifestyle, health, and preferences. The most effective methods are long-acting reversible contraception (LARC) like the implant, IUD, or injection, which are over 99% effective. However, the best method for you is one you’ll actually use consistently. Speak to a healthcare provider about your options.
Does birth control cause weight gain?
Most people don’t gain significant weight from hormonal contraception. Research shows that the pill, patch, and ring don’t cause weight gain for most users. The contraceptive injection (Depo-Provera) may cause weight gain in some people. If you’re concerned about weight changes, track them and speak to your healthcare provider. They can help you find a method that works for you.
Can you get an STI from oral sex?
Yes, you can get STIs from oral sex including chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis, herpes, and HPV. While the risk is generally lower than vaginal or anal sex, it’s not risk-free. Using condoms or dental dams during oral sex significantly reduces STI transmission. Get tested regularly if you’re sexually active, including oral sex.